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“Is my problem ‘big enough’ for therapy? Why every struggle deserves support

It’s common for people to question whether their problems are “enough” to warrant therapy. Can you relate to this? 

Many people wonder if their struggles are significant or serious enough to justify seeking professional help. However, therapy is not reserved for crises or major life upheavals—anyone dealing with emotional or mental challenges, no matter how big or small, can benefit from counselling.

Often, people compare their experiences to others and downplay their own struggles. Thoughts like, “Other people have it worse,” or “I should be able to handle this on my own,” can lead to hesitation in seeking support. But mental health isn’t a competition. The severity of someone else’s struggles doesn’t diminish the validity of your own. Therapy is about your personal journey and growth, and if something is affecting your well-being, it’s worth exploring.

Many clients also worry that their issues might seem “too small” or “too trivial” for a therapist. But a good therapist understands that everyone’s challenges are unique, and what might seem minor to one person, could be deeply impactful to another. This is because it can sometimes be much less about what happened, and more about what we made it mean - about self, about other, about the world.

Counselling can also valuable for addressing issues before they become overwhelming. By seeking help early, you can develop coping mechanisms and insights that prevent small challenges from escalating. Even if you’re not in crisis, therapy can offer a safe space for self-reflection, growth, and emotional support.

Ultimately, if you’re questioning whether your problems are “enough” for therapy, that’s a sign that you could benefit from it. Everyone deserves the chance to improve their mental health and live a more fulfilled, balanced life.

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